KIMMYQUEEN SAYS...
I think he was saying that divorce is better than adultery, and that he, the husband, should ensure she is well taken care of, before leaving her. That is a practical and tbh worldly yet... "kind" response. It wouldn't be right for him to live with someone else while he is married, nor to abandon her without ensuring she has the best care. I wouldn't want him to treat her badly or kill her, so in a secular situation, this is the best advice.
The husband is an asshole... for better for worse... in sickness and in health... that was an oath. Disease is not a good reason for divorce and Pat should have stated that. He should have stated that as a secular person, however this would be his advice to him, HOWEVER if the man is a Christian SHAME on him for doing this and would he be ok if the shoe was on the other foot?
